Who is keeping score? There is no need to keep score regarding the kind things you do because you love each other, however those nurturing things are deposited into your love bank, whether you know it or not. If you are nasty to your partner, or if you do things that hurt your partner, or your partner sees you hurt someone else, your available balance diminishes. Frequent withdrawals of this nature affect your account negatively. You must be aware of this fact. You do not want to end up in the red.
If you love one another and always do what is best for the other person, you do not even have to give it a thought, your love bank account will always have a positive balance, will have an increment and gain interest over and above all your expectations. The nice thing about this account is that no thief can steal or transfer any of your points, you are the only one who can manage this account.
Things are difficult in the outside world, so when you come home and your partner comes home, make sure it is a safe heaven for him or her, and if you have children the same applies. Create a loving atmosphere that attracts your partner and even your children. Do this and you can bank on it, your deposit will pay high dividends!